Sunday, May 6, 2007
Things To Achieve B4 I Die - Have my own place

For someone who somehow like to stay at home for most his time, having a place that i like is utmost important. Having the choice of how i can design my own place to my own delight would be great. There would be comfy cushion chairs for my friends to come over and have a pleasant sleepover which we would talk about everything from our dreams to our scandalous secrets, the slick tables, just like those seen in home decor magazines, and not forgetting fancy tablelights with heart-warming pictures by its side. Honestly, the place i like doesn't have to be a whole 5-room apartment. Even a small hostel-size room/apartment would suffice - the smaller the cosier, at least that's what i think (and the easier to clean up).

The choice of design is one matter but the main reason behind having my own place is FREEDOM. While at home i still get the freedom to stay in my own room (much to the displeasure of my parents and my grandmother), i still get the frequent intrusions by my parents, grandmother and my crazy maid that drives me nuts. My father and mother would take turn to knock on my door to ask the same (!) questions. My grandmother would always be interested in what i do, occasionally taking small peeps into my room (not a good peeper i say) as if i had something up my sleeves. And my WONDER maid (she's from the WONDER MAID AGENCY) would always have some idiotic reminders for me. See, that's why i need to have my own place.

Well, i know there's a stigma with staying alone. People will think i'm some psycho-freak without many friends aka a loner. After all, i'm coming home to an empty space, with no life, and i would be seriously lonely. But i don't think so. Instead i believe that having my own space mean that i am not burdened with the complication of having another person living in the same space as me. I would be free to do as i plased, which means i could watch extremely bad television without having to think that my brothers or grandmother wanted to watch another channel with better-quality shows, spending an hour in the bathroom without complaints from my mother and singing as aloud as i can without feeling shy. haha. While as much as i can love my family, i can't imagine having them in my space at all times. Of course, if i find my beloved one, the space would be hers as well and it'll be OUR place. But before that, i would like my very own bachelor pad.


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